Well, it’s that time of year. (Well, maybe a little late. Better late than never.)
Time to pick ONE WORD to focus on for the entire year. (If you’ve never heard about the My One Word approach, here is a summary:
Lose the long the list of changes you want to make this year and instead pick one word. This process forces clarity by taking all of your big plans for life change and narrowing them down into a single thing. Your one word focuses on your character and creates a vision for your future.)
I started this in 2014 and have continued the tradition every year after:
2016:
2018:
And 2019:
So in 2019, this is how I said I would RE-FOCUS:
- This is the first thing that I will change. It applies to running as well as life. Less STRESS in 2019. In other words, some runs won’t happen, some races will suck, PRs may be elusive. My job is just a job. It is what it is.
- So this one has to do with priorities. Trying to do it all means not doing some things well. The hard part will be deciding what is important. In the past year, I was trying to keep up with tennis, maintain decent speed on short races and complete a few half marathons. In the mix was traveling as part of my job, vacations, family events and seeing my friends, etc. There were days that I was just going through the motions. In 2019, I may just have to let some things go and concentrate on those things that matter most.
- I admit that this past year, I may have been in a running rut. I got complacent with my training because I was still successful …enough. I feel like I need a change. I want to do something different and something that involves effort. Once I decide, there will be no excuses. It may be joining a gym or signing up for yoga classes or trying spinning or even playing on a tennis team. I may even start to quilt again. I could even start a new job.
So how did I do?
- I’ve ACCEPTED my job for what it is and instead, focused on its benefits. I felt less stressed about race finish times and PRs and enjoyed my runs and races more than in the past. CHECK – change
- I made the decision NOT to play tennis. I instead concentrated on family, friendships and racing. CHECK – priorities
- I ran my first MARATHON!! CHECK – effort
Re-Focusing in 2019 was a success in my opinion!
And now on to 2020…
What is my word? Should I pick one this year?
1.My first thought was skip the whole “word” thing. I tend to forget about it until it’s time to pick another word.
2. On the other hand, it’s a good way to look back on the past year and also look ahead to the coming year.
3. What word should I pick?

many ideas for this year and future years…
4. So my word for this year is:
So what does it mean?
- the will or ability to wait or endure without complaint
- steadiness, endurance, or perseverance in the performance of a task
5. So how will PATIENCE fit into my running in 2020?
On the whole, I am not a patient person. In fact, I am pretty impulsive. So this will be a BIG challenge.
- If I cannot run, find another activity rather than whining about not running.
- When I was healthy, I signed up for a lot of races..and then things changed. So I need to hold off on clicking that “Register” button from time to time so I can properly train for a race rather than just “do” it.

AND PATIENCE
- PRs may happen. PRs may not happen but you often can’t predict when they will happen.
- I have to start out races slower so I can negatively split a few. I must remember that it should feel easy at the start of a race and that I need to keep my energy under control so I don’t fade in the latter parts of a race.
Here are some links related to running and patience:
- https://blog.runkeeper.com/3793/five-ways-running-teaches-patience/
- https://www.womensrunning.com/2014/10/news/nyc-running-mama-patience_31724
- https://www.orthocarolina.com/media/patience-is-probably-the-best-quality-in-a-runner-
- http://www.tips4running.com/Patience-When-Running.html
- https://talk.brooksrunning.com/blog/2016/07/12/running-taught-patience/
- https://www.runnersworld.com/runners-stories/a20788560/all-we-need-is-just-a-little-patience/
- https://elevatesyracuse.com/running-and-patience/
So how am I am doing so far with relation to PATIENCE:
- Several times a week, I am using the stationary bike at the gym in order to avoid running too many weekly miles (until my foot is pain-free.)
- Although I could have qualified or registered for the Brooklyn Half Marathon in May, I decided to wait and sign up for a local May half (if I am healthy).
- I did run the Fred Lebow Half Marathon but very cautiously with zero expectations of a good finish time.
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Happy Running! If you were to choose ONE word for your focus throughout this year, what word would you choose? Are you PATIENT when it comes to running?
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I am not a patient person either which would probably make it a great word for me to choose. I have not written mine yet either! I need to get on that.
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I’m not sure I’ll be successful on this one..but I’ll try….
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“Patience” is a wonderful word for the year. You really have put a lot of thought into it. Thanks for the list of websites to peruse. I should probably consider it. I began choosing One Word just last year (balance). Last year, I decided that, for me, balance isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. I enjoy going all in on something. This year, I am choosing “humility”. Something I need to work on.
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I love “Humility.” Maybe for a future year.
Balance is hard and it is different for everyone and affected by so many variables.
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I’ve had nearly a year of practicing patience – kinda over it but I totally understand why you chose it for your word of the year.
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You have been patient…which is so hard!!!
Wishing you a healthier 2020…and some running!!!
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Patience is a really good word. I think everyone can work on that. I know I have to do that every day at work.
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Me too. It’s hard.
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Patience is a tough word to live by! I am just catching my breath at work and may settle on a word in time for our coffee date next weekend. You’ve given me a lot to think about!
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sure is. we’ll see how patient I can be lol
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Such a good word!
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Oh, man. This one gets me. I am the polar opposite of patient, so I am going to check out some of your links to see if I can jolt myself into {patient} action.
I like the way you plan on living up to this word. You’ve got this. I’m going to hit the bike tomorrow and see if I can’t channel some of your zen.
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We’ll see how far I get. I’m the opposite of patient as well. Must be the Taurus in us.
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Having a word of the year is a great idea! The focus and mission of that word would help so much, even if you forget it during parts of the year. Makes me want to pick a word too! Patience is an excellent choice… and an area where I need A LOT of help!
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Yeah me too.
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