
The weekend was lots of fun. The race, however, did not go as planned.
It’s not easy to forget but I’m trying.
But I will remember:
- the amazing crowd support and zillions of spectators calling out my name.
- my friends near and far who cheered me on
- meet-ups, food & drinks with friends all weekend long
- sunny and dry weather all weekend
- and these inspiring runners:
Last Week –
- Sunday – TCS NYC Marathon.
Despite getting up at 4:30am and not starting the race until 11:00 am, things went pretty smoothly.
I didn’t feel great from the first step but the wheels didn’t totally fall off until around mile 10. I managed to trail some friends who were walking and did cross that finish line around 5:00 pm.

my friends are the best… even with my calves ceasing in pain for the last 16 miles, I managed to walk to the end and smile at times…
The walk out of the park did take forever but eventually I found my friends, walked (over 40 blocks) to my hotel and then enjoyed a lovely dinner.
- Monday – Marathon Monday.
Of course, I walked back to Central Park since I didn’t get a picture with my medal the night before. Then I took advantage of the free recovery tools followed by brunch (with Cari) and then drinks with my friends.
Eventually it was time to get to the train station and head home.
- Tuesday – It’s over… for 18 weeks, all I thought about was the marathon… what do I do now?
With still some DOMS in my quad and calves, I hit the gym before work and only used the arm and hip machines.
And then I went for a walk after work.
- Wednesday – Rest Day #3 and again a post work walk.
- Thursday – With two weeks until a Thanksgiving 10k, I decided to see if my legs could still move. I went out at lunch (too cold before work and too dark after.) My legs felt great!!! But now I have to remember how to dress when it’s breezy and cold.
I contacted my chiro as soon as I got home on Monday and I made an appt for today. By this point, of course, my body felt normal. She agreed and found nothing wrong.
After, since it was dark and cold, I walked around UAlbany with my running friend
and then we bought our last ice cream cookie sandwiches of the year.
- Friday – Another rest day and gym morning.
I played Mah Jongg in the evening with no stress to leave early due to a long run the next day.
- Saturday – Long Run!
Can it still be called that if it isn’t long or just an excuse to see my running friends and then have brunch together?
We met at the Corning Bike Path and five of us ran 5 miles… the legs felt fine but I didn’t push it.
With ten of us for brunch, I’m sure we spent more time chatting than running.
Then it was time to catch on all the stuff I didn’t do last weekend.
- Sunday – One of my favorite 15k races takes place today… Four years ago, I was able to run this race right after my marathon.
But this time, I didn’t sign up…
Did I know how the race was going to turn out??
A lot of my racing friends are going to be there and I definitely have FOMO.
This Coming Week on the Run –
- Monday – AM run, DAY OFF, hike
- Tuesday – GYM, rest day
- Wednesday -PM run
- Thursday – run, hike
- Friday – GYM, rest day, mah jongg
- Saturday – Long Run
- Sunday – GYM, hike
This Coming Week on the Blog –
- Tuesday – TCS NYC Marathon Race Recap
- Friday – Holiday Gift Guide
Happy Running! How is your year of running so far? Training for any big or small races this fall? How’s the weather where you live? How do you feel after a big race? what if it didn’t go well? Please share.

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I’m so sorry that your race didn’t go as you hoped. It’s hard it all comes down to the day. But the bottom line is you crossed the finish line, now you have 2 marathons done! Give yourself time to process it and let your body heal. Congrats on a tough race!
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Thanks. My body is great. But my mind is taking longer.
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Congrats on completing your second marathon (I’m sorry it didn’t go as planned). I look forward to reading your recap!
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Thanks. It happens. Recap coming soon.
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Since I’ve run zero marathons, I can only imagine your disappointment, but you really should be proud of yourself for doing all the training and crossing that finish line!
You don’t have control over how things go on race day, but you did your best even if it felt like a worst.
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Very true. I’m proud that I didn’t quit but not how I handled it. There’s next time. Yup I said it.
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I am sorry your race didn’t go as planned. I hope you also remember all the time and energy and training you put in to get there. That really is the real accomplishment of a marathon and lots to be proud of IMO
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I guess the problem is all that time spent training and I had to walk. Boo.
I am proud that I did finish.
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Well… you just never know what’s going to happen in a marathon. I’m looking forward to the recap to try to analyze this more fully- so your calves were cramping up? It took a lot of mental strength to keep going for 16 miles with that kind of pain, so give yourself credit for that. You completed the marathon and you’re not injured, so let’s just call it a win and move on!
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Easier said than done…
But I have moved on and plan to do it again next year (with a different mindset.)
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Ugh, so sorry for the tough day in NYC. Those challenging races really take a toll, on the mind and body. Hopefully, you’ll be able to look back with more gratitude for your accomplishment than regret for the less-than-ideal experience.
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Still in the regret phase but yes, I am happy that I did it and didn’t quit.
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I’m sorry it didn’t go as you hoped, but as you say, finishing is winning. Plenty of us haven’t run a marathon. 🙂
Thursday was really COLD! Of course in a couple of months we’d think that’s warm — unless we get lucky & they’re right about a warmer than normal Winter. One can hope.
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When I dress to run, I try to remember that it’s not as cold as it’s going to get.
So many miles are run to train for 26.2 miles so it’s very discouraging… in this case finishing did not seem like winning.
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It may not seem like winning now, because you’re too close to it. In a couple of years (or less) you may feel very differently. And if you don’t, you can still say you did it — twice.
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LOL. I’ve already decided to run in again next year with my friends. I can’t end my marathon career on a sour note.
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So I just read you’re going to try it again next year?? Good for you! There’s always something you can try different, so give it a go!
Sad to hear that it was your last ice cream sandwiches of the season. Sigh!
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I have 3 in the freezer.
Definitely have unfinished business in NYC.
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Hugs. I’m sorry it didn’t go how you wanted, but it sounds like you’ll get it next year! Proud of you.
That being said, it sounds like the following week was wonderful, with friends and no lingering issues.
Next year, here you come!
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I’m going into next time with a different mindset. Fun!!
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Going into next time.. there’s the Darlene I know 😀 Proud of you
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Can it still be called that if it isn’t long or just an excuse to see my running friends and then have brunch together?”
YEs. I’ve been known to call 3M long. I don’t care and neither should you.
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I like the way you think. Enjoy your birthday trip.
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I tried to reply before but I’m having trouble commenting. I really admire your tenacity in this one, well done to you!
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thanks
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